Also, if you say the order is the same, then what do you mean by the extra cutscene where Astarion offers to keep watch?
It's this cinematic I'm looking for, but I may have misunderstood its trigger.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=JhlRQKy2-egAs a cutscene hunter, I take note of everything you say (thanks)... but managing to talk to the Gur without knowing Astarion's secret seems ... difficult.