There are human male face meshes in the vanilla game that I consider pretty good. I highly doubt there is an anti-male anti-white agenda (which I don't think there really is, anywhere), considering how the cast is overwhelmingly white. In regards to CC head meshes, it is for example quite lacking in asian faces.
If you're looking for a specific vision, your best shot is looking at mods, plenty of mods for youthful model men:
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/search/Here's the first random couple of mods I saw that fit that description, but like I said, plenty of them:
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/6148https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/3917
