It is strange (or perhaps not strange) that there is a thread claiming the game is over sexualized when there appears to be no discussion as to whether the game is too violent or too morally indifferent etc etc.
I suspect this thread has more to do with the well known sexual anxiety of a certain culture that has always been more comfortable with violence than sexuality.
That's a question I often find myself asking. Astarion's epilogue quip about murdering people is ok as long as they are the right people, seems a very apt representation of the general rpg morality, if it is an enemy it's ok to kill it. I am quite glad that the game offers some opportunities to avoid violence and has an uncynical stance on mercy.
As for the sex, somehow sex and romance have become pretty muddled in this thread.