It is strange (or perhaps not strange) that there is a thread claiming the game is over sexualized when there appears to be no discussion as to whether the game is too violent or too morally indifferent etc etc.
I suspect this thread has more to do with the well known sexual anxiety of a certain culture that has always been more comfortable with violence than sexuality.
It's just the typical prudish nature of society as a whole. Where nudity gets 18+ ratings while violence and gore are okay in 12+ rated media...
Sprinkle in the fact that BG3 isn't any more violent than a majority of games, while it features more nudity than most games and you get a thread discussing the sexualized nature of the game rather than its violence.