Actually, I have no issue with either the level of violence or sex in the game. I do find it humorous though that there are so many who are more concerned about the sex than the violence.
It's deeply ironic to me that the sex was one of the big selling points of this game pre-launch, but now that I've actually played the game a few times I've found the amount of sex to be somewhat disappointing. Perhaps I'm just a pervert (jokes, I know I'm a pervert), but they could have put a lot more sex and I would still not think it was too much. I'm also disappointed in how they've implemented the poly stuff, but I know it's because it was not something they fully planned.
But the level of sudden and obvious gore and violence has surprised me at times. i would be in favour of adding an extra content warning when a player selected the durge origin.
Yes someone who has never played the game would get the impression reading this thread that BG3 is an interactive sex simulator worthy of a channel on Pornhub.
As for the violence I can kill anyone including goblin children, collect body parts, and strive to become the “God of Murder”. When I romance SH we share a fully clothed kiss and eventually go skinny dipping.