I intended my Tav character to romance Wyll, but I was role-playing her as very shy and had her back out as he tried to kiss her after they danced together, expecting that there would be another chance to get them together later on. But there wasn't, and I felt like I'd missed out on a significant part of the story by not having any romance. I went back a few days ago to the last save before the dance, and replayed more or less the same game - except some things in different order, and doing much better in the fights - but now I've reached the end of act 2 (Wyrm's Lookout) and the scene never triggered.The first time through, the dance scene triggered during the Gauntlet of Shar, according to the quest log from the save immediately after, I'd completed the soft-step trial only.
Is there any way to force that scene to trigger, or at least figure out why it hasn't from the save files? I'd be happy to look into mods. I just don't want to replay most of act 2 again; so it looks like I'll just have to leave that run and accept it never happened. The only differences I can think of are if I did something that Wyll disapproved of so much it blocked a relationship even though his approval was 100% for most of that time (it was 94% in the last save before the romance); or that it should have triggered but some other story event happened on the same long rest, because I was playing better from experience and didn't need as many rests.