Its obvious that many people here have never played D&D as tabletop. The chainmail bikinis ect, are things players joke about, but they never happen in the game. In the few cases you do have such a horny guy at the table he is usually quickly kicked out for being weird. The sexual content published as book or streaming is designed for non d&d players to grab their attention. Just like in BG3.
I agree. I play DnD a very long time now and never had chain mail bikinis or horny bards ( normally I'm the bard and I don't play horny) Those stereotypes are more from other medias than tabletop.
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