And that "I'm afraid of kisses" line will only be with the one man for the path of evil. With Mintara, is someone asking for an opition to be afraid of her? Technically there's something to be afraid of. That kind of story should be left to the imagination with the mods.
I agree the extremes should be in any optional mods, not in the base game. I'm sure scared faces for Minthara kisses will take off after the mod support release. She is a drow after all, makes "sense" for her character too.
