You must have played different game i guess, the same Astarion who would enjoy watching you having fun after the party most certainly would not be into her lmao.
Tiefling refugees and 7k vapmires are in totally different part of the game, there are good reasons why Wyll and Karlach won't join the party if u slaughter the grove or won't immediately leave after ascension, but thats hard to understand for some i see.
