What are you talking about? I'm talking about the change to the character expression during a kiss, that was happy before, and is now horrible. Nothing to do what you do in your game, I could not care less about your choices.
If you don't care about my choices, why would you care if there was a choice in the game where I can say I want my character to feel frightened when they are intimate with ascended Astarion and I went for that choice (as long as you have the option to make a different choice that suits your preference)?
You can feel that that is dumb, gross, inconsistent or whatever. No one is forcing you to click that choice.