Because modders shouldn't fix games that are still getting patches, but the developers themselves whose actions hurt many people. If the upset was so big that even a gaming magazine made an article about it, it's fair to expect Larian to do something about their mistake that affected their paying customers, especially if said patch was advertised as a happy Valentine's Day gift.
Well, someone here was obviously not hurt and rather pleased with the new flavour to this romance path. And they are making the humble request that they would like an option to keep this flavour and being met with repeatedly dismissive rejections of:
1. Just wait
2. Just use mods
3. Your interpretation of your character's romance and how you want to play your game is wrong, you should only interpret this romance path the way I say it should
As another user pointed out, this (and being compared to an arsonist) isn't a very welcoming and respectful way towards a new user who is making a simple request that isn't hurting anyone else.
Edit: Given the explanation provided I acknowledge that the arsonist comment was not intended that way, I am leaving it in here so that it doesn't look like I am trying to wash the post history clean.
