OP

Just want to say I think your suggestion is very respectful. Though I personally think other things aside from intimacy could be prioritised and there are perhaps practical limitations, the fact that these animations already exist means there isn't that much work needed to implement them.

You are not playing your game or interpreting your romance path wrong, it is your game and you can enjoy it and your story any way you want. Should these animations make it into the game in the manner that you have requested, I am happy for you to enjoy them.