Except that’s not true at all. Narratively, there is nothing to suggest that doing so is safe for our character if we’ve already become his spawn. As soon as the tadpole is gone, he could hunt Tav down and use compulsions just like Cazador did to his spawn. And if the narrative doesn’t agree with me, then why the hell do we have an actual abuse dialogue chain where Tav can be intimidated into not breaking up with him?
Also, you’re saying some really problematic things here. Victims stay with abusers they’re afraid of all the time and this is without vampire mind control magic being in the mix. Like, sorry, but you’re kinda coming across here as victim blaming.
Edit: And more importantly, you’re distracting from the real issue here, which is the lack of character agency, which was the complaint by people who wanted to see their Tav happy during the kiss no? So then Larian needs to meet in the middle and solve this either by toning things down to neutral, or giving us a choice. Stop trying to discredit my game choices and my perception of the route.
But you already know from the epilogue that he doesn't do that if you break up with him. And that he responds quite appropriately in the end. So what you're saying is headcanon. An afterthought. His threats could be empty words, resentment, aggression. Nowhere in the game does it say otherwise.
Like you want to play the victim yourself, so yeah it's your fault. Where am I wrong? In this case there is no logic to his romance. Since you can dump him.
Personally in my game there was no violent dialogue, everyone was happy. And the new evil epilogue just reinforces that. All "violence" dialogues lead to a break up, which is what you should use before the epilogue. You can even stay human and dump him before the epilogue. He won't have any control.
You're bringing reality into this again, the game has nothing to do with that. It's a fantasy, you don't need to play out real life domestic drama with a drunk husband. There are also victims left for financial reasons, there are a lot of nuances in real life. But none of that in game.
So no, he won't go after your character. Not unless you want him to. Like in a fanfic.
edit: YOUR Choice was added to the game half a year after release. IT NEVER EXISTED.