As far as people actively triggered by the scenes go, I think a better compromise would be to make the D/s angle optional as far as possible. To me, the subtext lifestyle D/s angle was always exceptionally plain and obvious, but I am not the default viewer
I too hold the not-so-popular view that D/S could be made optional.
However, if it's left the way it is, the last thing I want to see is the horror of Patch 6 and scared faces
Also, the kissing mod that was posted in various Astarion threads was a great solution for me game. That way, I can click on other companions' kisses without clicking on the ones that introduce the D/S dynamic (AA's own kisses), and click on them when I'm in the mood.
Same goes for those who conversely liked the story and atmosphere of Patch 6. I think there will be a mod that can save those faces and you can play with them in the same way I did.
Some of us AA fans liked the old expressions TYVM and I will continue to voice my complaint if they are changed.
I do think the "happy stories" sell better. Happy stories are liked by most people. That's why there was a request for happy faces when kissing. It's romance, not tragedy. Saying that Patch 6 is the best and only solution is not true. Maybe for you, but not for the majority.
When you go to the store and stand in front of a rack of apples with lemons, most will take the sweet apples, not аll, but most.
Characters are the face of the game. They are the merchandise. Making an apple a lemon is a questionable decision.You might argue, but stories of suffering and tragedy sell fewer copies than the latest tabloid novel where everyone is happy.
I'm certainly not the majority, but I'm one of those who also want to smile at my romantic interest, whether it's Astarion, or the dark Justiciar Shadowheart, or Mintara, or any of the others.