Originally Posted by ladyincognita
Just because you don't understand someone else's triggers doesn't mean they are not real or valid. These new "consensual" expressions can in fact be very triggering, as they are for me, in that they signal to the player that something they see as abusive is actually playful and fun. "Do you even know what PTSD is" is a truly awful thing to say to someone.

I actually meant well for you or them, but go on as you please. (But the instructions what to write are still there.) Back then, a lot of us asked for the old non-abusive patch 5 kiss for those, who are not into kink.

Originally Posted by KiraMira
Originally Posted by Mirmi
I too hold the not-so-popular view that D/S could be made optional.
However, if it's left the way it is, the last thing I want to see is the horror of Patch 6 and scared faces
Also, the kissing mod that was posted in various Astarion threads was a great solution for me. That way, I can click on other companions' kisses without clicking on the ones that introduce the D/S dynamic (AA's own kisses), and click on them when I'm in the mood.

I don't think it's that unpopular of an opinion. The mod you mention will be perfect for those that seek non D/S kisses. Mods are honestly the perfect solution to satisfy everyone in this. We just have to accept that Larian wanted to lean into something resembeling D/S in AA kisses, the corrected expressions only confirmes it for me. It sounds like the new animations are perfect for this dynamic. And some have even said you can roleplay as trapped with them as well. I'm really looking forward to seeing them on my Tav. I knew Larian could pull it off. I have seen the other companions kisses and how well those are handled, someone at Larian knows how to make perfect kisses.

I will probably have that mod installed as well, it's very good. I recommend for everyone looking for more standard romantic kisses.

Yep, there are great mods out there, and there will be definitely more. It's impossible for Larian to please every player. There were quite a lot, who are not into D/s, also like Ladyincognitia - we already asked for the old patch 5 kiss, where there is no abusive behaviour. I think, that would be a good solution for a lot of people.

Beside of that, I am looking forward to the patch, it sounds great, because it seems to be a compromise, which a lot of people can enjoy. Thank you Larian.


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