Almighty YouTube algorithm recommended me this video (oh, how well it knows me). While it mostly focuses on some strenghts of PoEs over BG3, I think it is pretty fair to both games. I think it does a well job in not trying to punch BG3 down, but highlighting that in some aspects it could do better. Not agree with everything (I think combat comparison is more nuanced than the video suggests with solid strengths and weaknesses on both sides) but it does a great job in highlighting some things that I really missed in BG3. While the video talks mostly about PoE, and things the esseyist thinks are worth learing from, there is a pretty chunky bit on Baldur's Gate3 alone near the end.
