Originally Posted by Marielle
The scene you cited can be found by game testers, certainly. But it's led to by such explicit lines that it's almost impossible to get to it by accident. Unlike the request for a kiss. Plus, the scene you cited describes mistreatment towards a companion character, while the non-consensual kissing scene applies the mistreatment to the player character itself, and many players associate themselves with their characters, and that can be a trigger.

I know people who have misunderstood that line because they read it more as a general statement for the future and not as an immediate demand for sex, and were subsequently deeply shocked by what their character had just done. I also get the impression that a lot of players feel more empathy towards their companions than towards the husk that is Tav. This seems to be the top reason for turning into a mindvflayer in the end - though my impression is of course subjective. So I wouldn't generalise that "a horrible thing happened to my character" always ways more heavily than "Oh no what have I done?!" it can very well be the other way around.