Originally Posted by Ametris
He also isn't thrilled about going to the epilogue party, but it's hinted he does that because Tav wants to see their friends.

The narrator says he would have liked to host the party himself, that's why he was pouting, not because he didn't want to come. If he only went to the party for romanced Tav, he would have no reason to still be there in the friendship epilogue.

He still calls Tav "pet" if they objected to being called that, for example, so I don't think he would always go along with what they want.