I have a question about the affair with Minthara. I don't raid the grove, I knock out Minthara in the goblin camp, I rescue her in Moonrise, after the fight with Thorm I say that I don't want to take control of the cult - is it possible to gather enough approval to unlock romance dialogue with these decisions? I mean agreeing with her on other issues besides those described above, or is it not enough to collect these 40 points?