I apologize for not hiding sensitive topics in my previous messages. I really thought I wasn't going much into the details, my fault.
But if you think people who select certain dialogue options should be met with visceral
with no content warning, or context warning in the game at all, so you can have RP for a small niche audience, you are allowed to want that.
I heavily disagree that Larian gives you, as a player, no warning about what you are getting into.
Larian literally spells it out: the ritual will make Astarion the next Cazador. They make this point several times during Astarion's quest. People already pointed out here that Larian gives the player a lot of opportunities to break up with AA before tadpoles are gone and it's too late.
But if you think so, then, again, by this logic, there is no warning before Haarlep scene either. Nobody complains about Haarlep scene, so I don't see what's the issue here either. The last time I've played Haarlep scene, (warning: about a non-con scene)
I distinctly remember getting scared faces during his sex scene as well.