Sorry I'm a bit confused, are they trying to change Illithid tav/Astarion romance to him staying with them?
Unsure what you're referring to exactly, but to sum up the thread: there are some seeming inconsistencies in the interactions between Astarion and a previously romanced Mindflayer Tav in the epilogue, where he will go back and forth on how he feels about you and what your relationship is. It is heavily suspected this is due to a coding oversight. I'm pretty sure this has been happening for a while, though, but there's a new line introduced in patch 7 that's triggering for Mindflayer Tav and Astarion that's also seemingly accidental.
