thanks for reading and understanding. about the flags, definitely there has to be a better solution, this is just what i found quickly. but i do like the explicit "kiss me" and "could I kiss you" because it does not involve a new voice line that has to be recorded and still gives the player the agency to choose what they want. also with this, the animations dont have to be changed, because in both cases Astarion is the one taking the more dominant role and approaching tav, the dialogue just determines how tav reacts. this is literally only one more line in the "can we talk about us" dialogue tree