I would prefer a way of getting your love's thoughts but then telling them you'd much rather keep it between the two of you. For example, with Astarion you can say, "I'm not sure, I wanted to get your thoughts." He then says you can have as much Halsin as you'd like but then he proposes the question of "its not because we haven't in awhile?" I wish there were a way of saying "What are your thoughts?" then proceeding to tell them you would actually want the relationship to stay monogamous.
I think its very great to allow poly relationships in the game & I don't think evil pathed companions should only have the option. I think the discussion between you & the partner should've been more thorough.
