only because he has a gentler kiss, does not mean tav likes the relationship.
You make a great point and I didn't think of that. I will be satisfied with anything Larian does as long as: 1. Players know that they will get rough treatment before asking for a kiss. That way, they can still choose to avoid potentially upsetting content. 2. Player agency to decide if their characters like or dislike the kisses is preserved.
(Edited slightly because I reflected more due to the conversation and reverted back to my original stance. I agree the rougher AA kisses fit his character. A gentle-only option doesn't make sense since he is more dominant in personality now. I previously liked the gentle idea due to my personal preferences. But I want to make suggestions that I think please the most amount of players, while still matching the route characterization.)