I don't understand what is being said here. It's just as bad if AA is
emotionally abusing Tav/Durge. I don't want to get into my life, but emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse. And personally, I did not consent to being choked/neck grabbed by AA and I don't want to be. So it's already in a gray, not white, area for some players.
Once again, I have no desire to discuss emotional abusive behaviour or anything else, and I have no desire to convince you of anything about it, I'm saying it's not in AA's character to grab Tav by the throat just for fun. He only did it if Tav agreed to it. THAT'S THE POINT.
