gortash inspired in me very similar feelings to loghain in DAO (although i imagine less ppl will agree with me about loghain lmao) - if i could romance them, i would've dropped any and all companions in a heartbeat for it.
i agree that i'd love some option to define durge's past relationship to gortash more, *even if* nothing changes in the present--but if visiting gortash alone and as durge gave you the option for a little kiss, then who am i to refuse.....