I will rephrase my question.
I enjoyed the following RPGs: dragon age origins, dragon age 2, baldurs gate 1, baldurs gate 2, icewind dale 1, pathfinder: kingmaker and wotr, tyranny, fallout 1, fallout 2, arcanum, Colony Ship, Black Geyser, kotor1&2, jade empire.
Rpgs that am neutral about: Neverwinter nights 1, Neverwinter nights 2, Pillars of eternity 1&2, Encased, divinity dragon commander, divinity original sin 1&2, gamedec, greedfall, technomancer.
Game i didn't like ( not for me): planescape: torment, nwn 2: mask of the betrayer, dragon age: inquisition, skyrim ( too much fixing with mods to make it viable).
I have nothing against turn base combat overall since i love civilisation since the first game.
My gripe with turn base combat when it start to drag for too long.
I had this experience within divinity original sin 1 & 2.
I want to get into bg3 but this is my biggest barrier to entry when it comes to it.