No, that's not what you meant (we knew the other from the beginning), you're writing about her childhood and what supposedly happened to her.
To help with constructive debate it is good practice to quote specific comments that you are replying to, otherwise things get very puzzling and it's not clear what is a response to what or whom.
It also helps to actually be constructive, and that doesn't include telling others what they did or didn't mean. Please let them define that, and make your own points civilly and without heat.
