How is it possible that the Dark Urge just lets Ascended Astarion walk all over them? Seriously, why in Faerun would
the child of the god of murder—a notorious villain—
be so submissive? It’s ridiculous and makes no sense! It ruins my immersion and ruins what I have going on with my character. If anything, Dark Urge should be the more dominant one in the relationship based on what we know. This is the same person who can
rip off Gale's hand, for Bhaal's sake.
If you’re playing Dark Urge, Larian needs to add an option to dominate Ascended Astarion during the romance scene and kisses. Astarion should be the one kneeling. It can be through a one time Intimidation check during the romance scene. It's cute that Astarion thinks he's the one in charge, but it’s time for the Dark Urge to show who's really in control.