I'm a bit of the same mind as fylimar, I don't really have any strong feelings about her. Maybe I lean a little bit into her being too controlling and deciding too much for Gale without concidering him as a person. But at the same time I can see that she may just be acting for the common good. I do not think she is evil no. I empathize with her even though I think she is stepping over Gales bounderies.

I generally go for defying Mystra in my playthoughs, and
making Gale a god.