That does not look like someones first head mesh ?
Do you mean first head mesh for BG3 ?
For BG3, yes. Aerie is still one of the first characters I try to create in games that have more in-depth face editing, or for various figures in Poser and DazStudio (hence why I have a lot of fanart of her). Although that's a little different as it's mostly using sliders and dials to adjust parts of the face rather than sculpting the head directly.
I dont think Aerie will still care about a shallow and selfish person like Haer'Dalis at this point anymore. She has 100 years life experience over the Aerie wie meet in BG3.
True, but he was her first love, or at least first person she thought she was in love with, and I don't think she'd feel he was ever really unkind to her. Maybe he didn't really listen when she tried to say what she wanted. Mostly they just didn't have compatible philosophies, since he believed in hastening the entropy and decay of the universe, and she's very much in favor of life.