I replace "Sacrifice" with "Give up everything"
because it's convenient for your demagogic style of arguing
I didn't make any of these up. Go tell nature and the people who made these rules up this.
You are confusing survival mechanisms with love. Replace "man" and "woman" with "partner A" and "partner B".
You quite literally are complaining that "Despite 100 approval and a completed romance arc" she was threatening you (AKA betraying the "Loyalty of love" as you went on to talk about)
You quite figuratively put words in my mouth. I'm not complaining about betrayal - I'm saying this isn't what love looks like.
You are a US citizen. You are in a relationship with someone who is from China. Your partner still likes China and values their country of origin and the peoples that reside there.
You as a US citizen then do something that then provides a massive negative impact to all of China.
Have you betrayed your partner who has a strong allegience to China? (The answer is "Yes")
The answer is "No". Love places people above their country, their nation, and their families. Let's say I'm a CIA officer and she's a Chinese spy. If she demands I steal classified documents to save her country - that's manipulation. If my colleagues are about to arrest or possibly kill her and I risk everything to hide her - that's love. If I ask her to become a double agent to help the US fight Xi's regime - that's manipulation. If her mission was to infiltrate, use me to steal documents, and then eliminate me, yet she tells me everything and ends up on China's death list - that's love.
you show a distinct lack of empathy and care about others
and this is where it became clear that you're not defending your opinion, but rather indulging in moral self-satisfaction