Pushing her to spill her biggest secret, isn't something a good person would typically do.
I would never pressure her to reveal what's sacred to her, but that discretion comes at a cost - she cannot be part of the team. Among battle brothers and sisters there can be no secrets. Because we stand as one.
I always try to take people as unique individuals and give them the benefit of the doubt rather than pre-judge them
Unfortunately life isn't infinite. If you waste it digging through every pile of garbage hoping to find a gem you might never find one. I only dig when I see a glimpse.
