The issue arises when gore and sex start to dictate beyond their station. When characters start being designed because they have to be compatible with standard sexual attraction (AKA: They have to be "Pretty" both designwise and also race wise). Or if you add random BS just as an excuse for gore for gore's sake rather than it being a poignant expression of a key story moment.
Speaking of lengthy discourse...
There aren't any gooners in here asking for more slutty elf sex or freaky companions. All we have is a game trailer, we don't even know if the game will have companions or romance yet (fair to say it is an educated guess that it will). And already there are lengthy conversations directed towards audiences that enjoy different content when it comes to smut and intimacy. Maybe the whole game will be a dating sim, that would be a shame because I don't enjoy dating sims, but there's only so much conversation worth having around the fact.