I would also like to see more conventionally attractive men, especially humans and elves in traditionally masculine roles such as knights and soldiers. I was not at all fond of Baldur's Gate 3's handling of its male characters, especially when both Gale and Astarion were altered prior to the game's launch to have less muscle definition. A very strange decision in itself when Karlach was left untouched. Halsin, physically, was very much to my liking - and yet the infamous 'bear scene' combined with his sleazy approach to intimacy really put me off of him.
I'd like more of a balance. I'll begrudgingly tolerate the 'weird' options for those who truly want them, though I do not think that they should come at the expense of the timeless classics when it comes to more traditional standards of attractiveness and romance.