I started a local split screen coop game with my wife on my PC. She created her character first and I created mine second. She had protagonism of the story on cutscenes. Everything was fine until I decided to respec my class, appearance and name. Ever since I have been taking the leadership role on cutscenes which sucks cause it was supposed to be her playthrough. Our campaign save file also changed to my name.

I have seen a ton of "fixes" online like: dismissing my character and progressing the story a bit; changing her appearance and name; killing my character and progressing the story; deleting the old saves in a number of ways to get the campaign name to change back (this one actually worked, but it only changed the name, I'm still protagonist);respeccing my character again; none work.
I even downloaded LSTools and went into the save file but AI tutorials to make changes are more lost than I am.

Save from just ditching that origin character and taking Wyll as my new lockadin, I don't know what else to do. Please help me.