This thread is dedicated to Kyra Ny. Post here what you would like to tell her, hoping she will somehow get to read this.

Kyra, we haven't talked a lot, but I know you were a great person. I was really looking forward to some more chatting with you, sadly this won't happen... But know that I will never forget you, and will always think of you as a very kind and intelligent person.

May you rest in peace, Kyra.

You always had something funny to say, liked to joke with people. Kyra was very patriotic, and not afraid to say so.

May she rest in peace.

I will not forget here either, I really wish we had more time to talk, you seemed like a really nice person, and we barely talked.



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Stunned.....Don't know what to say!

i don't know her real name. i don't know how she looks like. i have never seen her wonderful husband. i don't have her e-mail nor the hubby's.

but i chatted with her on the open forum. we have exchanged PMs many times. i remember her first, asking of it's ok to include her birthday as well as wedding day in the birthday log (she was inspired by spick's wedding day log). in the end, Fafnir's birthday was logged in as well.

later on in the PMs, we talked of music. Rachmaninov's her favourite. & as for country music, her fav's Charlie Pride. & she's always sound happy when talking of her loving hubby.

we have seen how caring she is. the distraught of her niece sent her flying to her side. her love for her country is undeniable. how open she is with her feelings is unbelievable. each of us has our wonderful experience interacting - no, talking to her.

i don't know her in real life. but for her, i shed real tears.

i'll see u in heaven, Kyra.

It was a pleasure and an honor to knew you Kyra. Wherever you may be now, please think of us from time to time as we will think of you.

Go with god bless! I don't have words to say more.

kyra was one of my best friends here... i really don't know what to say... except I won't forget...

thanks to jang for spreading the bad new and to rythok for this thread

MG (for once speechless)

Kyra may you rest in peace and tranquility in Heaven.....I am sad that my last post to you was a joke about you drinking Non-Alcaholic Cider (a cardinal sin in my eyes), but then honest as you are, you came back explaining to me and all, that you had had some alcohol problems in your short and sweet life, and this to me, showed what a straight forward and good human being you were.....I will miss you a lot, God bless. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />
Faf',My Heart goes out to you.

i'm shedding tears right now. but i know, whereever kyra is, she is very happy.

this is just a reminder to us all that we are all living on borrowed time. there is a power out there that our finite human mind can never comprehend; a power that doesn't intend to do us any harm, just everything for our good, if we love Him. whatever happens, there is a reason. death isn't the end of everything; it's simply the beginning of eternal life.

My deepest sympathy to Fafnir... I wish you all the strength in this difficult period.

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Received this from Kyra_NY in December, when we were talking about Dimebag Darrell's (Pantera/Damageplan guitarist) untimely death... In the light of this news, it's rather spooky, but it may say something about she would like to be remembered.

I just don't know what to say.
Kyra was one of my most beloved people here and words cannot express my feelings.
Nevertheless, may she find peace.

It's at times like these you wonder what happens when you die. Do you come to heaven? Do you coe to hell? Do you come to heaven no matter? Hell no matter? Heaven if you're extremellu ortodoxchristian? Or do you just rot while feeling nothing? At all? (If you think the last alternative is the whorst one (exept hell) then concider that fact trhat you won't bother, you won't feel pain, you won't feel happiness, and you won't care, you won't feel nothing. Nothing at all matters to you. No problems at all. Maybe this acually IS the ultimate sollution...)

But I allso have to say that even though I don't really believe it, it's at times like these I hope heaven exists. Cos if it does, she's shurelly there. She might even have a computer (and if she does I must say: I told you you should have changed to public transport!)...

Übereil

May you rest in peace Kyra.

My deepest sympathy to Fafnir.
May you have strength at these difficult times.

A man dies so many times as many times he loses his relatives. Publili.

Fafnir, may you and your love find each other again.

With tears of compassion

Tsel

man.. i'm shocked, i just found out..

My heart goes out to Fafnir, i can only begin to imagine the pain he's in right now. Lot's of strength is what I give you Fafnir, may she rest in peace.

Don't know what to say ... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />

Kyra was one of the kindest souls on this forum. She'd often compliment me on a little joke I made. I am glad I brought some laughter to her live.

Keep in there Fafnir

To be honest, I didn't know her at all. Alrik posted about this tragedy in the German forum that's how I came to know about it.

But no matter if I knew her or not, it's a shame that people die such senseless deaths like in a car accident for example. And being a part of this community, it saddens me even more of course knowing that she was also a member here.

Fafnir, I wish you and your family the strength to handle this loss. Losing a beloved person is one of the worst things if not the worst to happen... you can't do anything but just watch them pass. May God - whomever you believe in - help you in your mourning. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/sad.gif" alt="" />

And Kyra, may you rest in peace. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />

Like Alrik i don't know what to say ... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />.
Kyra Ny cared about everybody in the forum. She was one of the nicest person.
I will keep all her PM to not forget.

I am thinking about you Fafnir. You loved her so much. Life should be so empty without her.
I already posted this poem in the forum one year ago.
But i want to post it again for Fafnir and Kyra Ny.
[color:"pink"]
Annabel Lee by Edgar Allan Poe (1849)

It was many and many a year ago,
In a kingdom by the sea,
That a maiden there lived whom you may know
By the name of Annabel Lee;
And this maiden she lived with no other thought
Than to love and be loved by me.

I was a child and she was a child,
In this kingdom by the sea;
But we loved with a love that was more than love-
I and my Annabel Lee;
With a love that the winged seraphs of heaven
Coveted her and me.

And this was the reason that, long ago,
In this kingdom by the sea,
A wind blew out of a cloud, chilling
My beautiful Annabel Lee;
So that her highborn kinsman came
And bore her away from me,
To shut her up in a sepulchre
In this kingdom by the sea.

The angels, not half so happy in heaven,
Went envying her and me-
Yes!- that was the reason (as all men know,
In this kingdom by the sea)
That the wind came out of the cloud by night,
Chilling and killing my Annabel Lee.

But our love it was stronger by far than the love
Of those who were older than we-
Of many far wiser than we-
And neither the angels in heaven above,
Nor the demons down under the sea,
Can ever dissever my soul from the soul
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee.

For the moon never beams without bringing me dreams
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And the stars never rise but I feel the bright eyes
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And so, all the night-tide, I lie down by the side
Of my darling- my darling- my life and my bride,
In the sepulchre there by the sea,
In her tomb by the sounding sea. [/color]

I'll miss you so much Kyra. You were a friend. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />

Fafnir: I can't imagine the pain you feel right now. My deepest condolances.

Like Alrik and Elgi I heard of this tragic thing in the German Part of the Forum so ... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/puppyeyes.gif" alt="" />

I just want to give my sincere condolances to the family and the friends. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/puppyeyes.gif" alt="" />

I can't stop thinking about it. I'm sorry but I'm so mad. What a senseless death.

She was so good and kind. I wish I could be half of what she was.... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cry.gif" alt="" />

I understand that womble... I've learned the thing some hours ago and still i'm very shocked...

i must confess that in the all beginning i was a bit cautious with what she called hershelf her "loving path"... but it was not long for me to realize she was as good as her word... and it was not a senseless theory/attitude...

fafnir if you're reading that one day... of course my sympathy goes to you for this terrible loss... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />

Kyra will be always be remembered in our hearts and souls.

I might not have known her for a long time. But she was the kind of girl that got you thinking.

Kyra,
We'll miss you and you will be remembered.

I do so hate this...
Lot's of strenght Fafnir!

Oh no. It can't be true. For me she is still here. I haven't even read all her latest posts yet. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/puppyeyes.gif" alt="" />

I liked Kyra a lot and I will miss her.

Life is so fragile.
What a tragedy!
My sympathies to Fafnir and her family.

Ky, ...................... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />

Fafnir, stay strong

I meant to write something meaningfull but then realise that it will not help ..... memories ...

Kyra was the rain in the desert, she was the sun in the rose garden, she was the fire in a cold night.

Kyra was there for all of us, she offered us support, advice or even just a ear that would listen, she offered us laughter and made us smile....

Fafnir, my sincere condolences, i cant immagine the pain of losing someone that was not only special to everybody, but that was loved truely and deeply.

You were blessed to have known her. Her love, her spirit, her whole personality was a blessing to us all.

You will find her again, because i know, a soul wont stop searching for someone that was so precious. May you remember the fond times, may you recognise her smile on a stranger in a crowd, may you hear her laughter carried on the wind. And when you do see / hear elements of her later on, may it not bring sadness, but may it bring the bright and happy memories, may it bring the knowledge that she is waiting for you, may it bring the knowledge that she Loved you. May it bring the knowledge that she will never be gone, if she lives in your heart.

She will live forever in the hearts of the people she touched with her kindness.

I read the news a few minutes ago <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" /> I am sadened beyond words.

So while i dont have anything that i can say that would make it any easier, i just received this in my inbox and while this is not related in any way... I think that Kyra would be the one to be the Angel of the story in real life.

We will probably all shed a tear, like i have done while reading it, but i am sure that we will also all smile, with the knowledge that the Angel in this story is an image of Kyra. Loving, Caring, Putting her loved ones first.

A drunk man in an Oldsmobile
They said had run the light
That caused the six-car pile up
On Highway 109 that night.

Where broken bodies lay about,
And blood splattered everywhere.
The sirens screamed out elegies,
For death was in the air.

A mother, trapped inside her car,
Her cries was heard above the noise;
Her plaintive plea near split the air;
"Oh, GOD, please spare my boys!"

She fought to loose her pinned hands;
She struggled to get free,
But mangled metal held her fast
In grim captivity.

Her frightened eyes then focused
On where the back seat once had been,
But all she saw was broken glass and
Two children's seats crushed in.

Her twins were nowhere to be seen;
She did not hear them cry,
then she prayed they'd been thrown free,
Oh, GOD, don't let them die!"

Then firemen came and cut her loose,
But when they searched the back,
They found therei n no little boys,
But the seat belts were intact.

They thought the woman had gone mad,
And was traveling alone.
But when they turned to question her,
They discovered she was gone.

Policemen saw her running wild,
and screaming above the noise
In beseeching supplication,
"Please help me find my boys!

They're four years old and wear blue shirts;
Their jeans are blue to match."
One cop spoke up, "They're in my car,
And they don't have a scratch.

They said their daddy put them there
And gave them each a cone,
Then told them both to wait for Mom
To come and take them home."

I've searched the area high and low,
But I can't find their dad.
He must have fled the scene.
I guess, and that is very bad.

The mother hugged the twins and said,
While wiping at a tear,
"He could not flee the scene, you see,
For he's been dead a year."

The cop just looked confused, and asked,
"Now, how can that be true?"
The boy s said, "Mommy, Daddy came
and left a kiss for you.

He told us not to worry
and that you would be all right,
And then he put us in this car with
the pretty, flashing light.

We wanted him to stay with us,
because we miss him so,
But Mommy, he just hugged us tight
and said he had to go.

He said someday we'd understand
and told us not to fuss,
And he said to tell you, Mommy,
he's watching over us."

The mother knew without a doubt
that what they spoke was true,
for she recalled their dad's last words,
"I will watch over you."

The fireman's notes could not explain
The twisted, mangled car,
And how the three of them escaped
Without a single scar.

But on the cop's report was scribbled,
In print so very fine,
"An Angel walked the beat tonight On Highway 109."

Condolences from the german-language forum-part :

Lynx expressed his sadness, and Bigclaw6 wrote (in German) that it is "in any case very, very sad. I hope that her bhusband and his family will have a lot of strength. May she rest in peace." (Translated by me.)

And I acknowlege it.
I read the German topic too.

I'm so much in tears right now, so please axcuse me for any miostakes I wrote.

Kyra_Ny
I loved you from the first moment we met on this forum. I only knew you for about a month, but you became one of my dearest friends on this forum. You helped me with anything I asked. I promised myself to see you when I go to America. And you gave me this smiley, witch I'll keep forever!! Thank you Kyra, may you rest in peace...

It’s taken me hours to just write this.
I’ve read all of your kind words to Kyra and myself; thank you.
But I can’t hang around here right now.
I need my alone time to grieve.

All I know is she talked about every single one of you everyday just like you were part of her own special family. She always said you all were very special to her.

My life will never be the same without her.


Fafnir <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cry.gif" alt="" />

I remember that day...and that smily made me smile... in her memory...thanks for that.

Fafnir, I hope you can feel better knowing she is in a better place now. Remember the good things about her, her smile, her laughter. I have no words really to describe it, but she was a very good person, from what I learned from talking to her.

Fafnir, take your time. please don't be too hard on yourself. & know that we're always here if u ever need us.

@Fafnir,
my deepest condolances.

sigh...i feel like someone from my family died, and kyra wasn't even my relative nor someone i have seen in real life.

can someone pls tell me (via pm or something) how that happened? i want to know excatly how one good and worthy life just end like that when there are so many others who deserve to die first.

Oh Faf, just read your message and you've made me well up....stick in there mate. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />

thank you so much for your message and your kind words to this forum in these tragic circumstances fafnir... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />

Nobody goes complet, a part of everybody stays here.
In our memorys.
Kyra, i will not forget you.

Fafnir, i wish you, that you can find the strengh you need now.

I think like Stone.
I have lost my son at 2002.11.29, he was 17 jaers. but he is every day, every moment in my memory, in my heart, in my soul. nobody goes for ever. i now it. i hope, my english ist not bad, that you can´t understand me.

Sorry for my bad english. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shame.gif" alt="" />

Fafnir, Kyra is for ever with you.

Don't worry too much about your english. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

Yeah, we will never forget you Kyra

and Bigclaw, don't mind your english, it's understandable, I know what you are saying.

Me too, despite some minor mistakes... But since you are from Germany it is understandable, so I forgive you.
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Übereil

I think exactly the same.

@ Fafnir
I don't know if you will ever read this, but I want you to know you have my greatest sympathy.
Allthough we never met before, I cannot imagine how it must feel like to lose the one person you love the most.
Kyra will always be here in our forum and our memories...
This is the small gift she gave me, I will keep that forever!!

a big warm hug for u, bigclaw6.

I'm feeling undescribly odd, my grief is deep, and I can't put a face on it. This doesn't feel like emptyness, the signature you left behind spread over the whole world will remind us all of the great person are. Rest in Peace

Fafnir, no words of mine could possibly easen your pain, only hers can, my you find strength in it.

Farewell Kyra.
Don't worry about whats left behind just keep on going and all will be fine.
Farewell