how do i use a charm on an item?

There are two very handy illustrated guides:

Enchanting items - step by step

and this page at the Locus Inn.

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Thank you, thank you, thank you. Been trying to figure out charms for weeks now.

Welcome to the forums, Tuberski!

There is also useful information at GameBanshee's Divine Divinity pages...