the spider queen is a boss fight but doable + you can hire some orgers to help but Auntie is a very hard fight the first few times you try it... i'd leave her until you are level 4 or even 5
i mostly play a lurk in the shadows type "hero" so i like to go underdark before coming back to the surface... with skill you can kill anything under there and come back loaded with magic whatnots
Tbh, If you do all the Blighted Village stuff, you are more than likely level 4, when tackling Auntie. And that is doable.