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[color:"orange"]Ok, this is a completely different topic.... and i want posts from both male and female....

The idea is to take a situation / feeling, and write 3 things that you look for that will deepen your love / trust in your partner.... only the positive things you look for.

I am hoping that this topic will NOT become X-rated, since that will only mean it gets deleted. I am not aiming to go anywhere close to bedroom doors with this.... only to take general everyday / common event feelings or situations and give 3 things thatyour partner can do that will make it more positive for you.

Here goes a couple of examples.... [/color]

When I want to be hugged, I feel for your reluctance to let go, for the tenderness in your embrace, for your need to keep me near…

When I am sick or feeling down, I search for the caring touch, for the concern in your voice, for your desire to make me feel secure.

When I watch you laugh, I look for the smile in your eyes, the sharing body language, the happiness because I am there to share in your joy.

When times are tough, I yearn for the confirmation that we will stand together, the hope that somehow WE will get through, the knowledge that every dark cloud has a silver lining.

What I want is...

to see the love for me in your eyes,
to know the warmth of your love in your touch,
to feel the Shekinah’s presence in our embrace.


Kyra_Ny

When i want to be with you (amongst a group of your friends), i long for you to want me there, for you to be proud of who i am, different or not, for you to understand who i am and why.....

When i have my own opinions about something (whether you agree or not), i want you to accept my opinion, to listen to and try to understand my reasoning for having that opinion, whether you agree or not, to allow me to build myself based on my opinions and believes...

(this is a little more of a complex one... but whether i believe that i dont drink coca-cola (example) for a certain reason, i want you to allow me my beliefs, to accept them, and to at least understand WHY... you dont have to agree.... you just have to give me the freedom to find my OWN beliefs, my opinions about SMALL things is what defines me.... if you try to change me, i will never be happy, i will never blossom like i should....... Its the same as accepting that a rose has a thorn.... like it or not... you understand that it is aimed at protection, whether the danger of deer exists in your garden or not...... )

[color:"orange"] Can't really help the thread here haven't found that person yet :s

But what I would want hm lemme think.
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I want your face to stay, burned on my retina and not fading away, I want my smile to be the puppet of yours.
I want me to miss you when you just leave the room but the feeling of your presence, how far you may be, to bring me to inner rest. but your physical presence should fire me up inside. I want the morning to shut us up and tell us to finally go to sleep.

well It's an attempt.

It was brilliantly said <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

When i feel insecure in my beliefs, i want friends who can assure me that my beliefs are based on a solid foundation, i want friends who keep me from straying, i want friends who make me feel like i am a friend....

You are all those friends, you are the ones that keep me going straight.

When i am tired, i want a an supporting arm, a soothing caress and a quiet goodnight wish.

When i wake up, i need to see the sunshine in your eyes, feel the breeze in your whisper and hear the birds' song in your kisses. (I feel that this is of utmost importance, since the first emotions you have when you wake, becomes either the light that drives the nightmates away, or becomes the nightmares).

When you feel lonely, i want to be the your companion, i want to be your smile, i want to be your friend.

When you feel upset, i want to be the one to run you a soothing bath, the one to light the candles and play the soft music, i want to be the one to massage the worries out of your thoughts.

flash me a smile, call me by my name & give a warm greeting.

& i'll be happy the whole week.

honest! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

.... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/think.gif" alt="" /> now it won't be fair to keep asking & asking without giving ....

when i twitch my eyebrow at u, i'm giving a secret smile.
when i poke at your side while having a serious conversation with someone else, know that u're on the fore of my thought.
when i am being very very silly in front of u & only u, know that i am in my most vulnerable & i trust u with it.
when i lay my emotions in front of u, know that it's like handing u a sword with the point pricking my heart. be careful with it.

... come to think of it, i never told anyone things like these. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shhh.gif" alt="" />

me neither....... good ones tho! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

When i have a busy day, i want an offering to help (i'll probably decline, but i still want you to offer), i want to be able to share the weight of my burden, and i want to hear that its not too far to the end...

When i do something wrong, i want you to be angry, i want you to be firm , but i still want your forgiveness.

When i am falling into depression , i need you to be my cloud, so i dont fall too far, i need you NOT to be scared away by a sad face, but instead to embrace me, for only by offering comfort, can i get better..

(no i am not depressed.... but if i get depressed, that is what i need)

When i strugle to get something right, i want suggestions like "why dont you try this / /that" or "dont you think this/that might work", not "Do this" and "Do that", I want advice but not commands... and when i finally get it right, i want the credit to be mine.... i will share it with you regardless....

I want to find you my true love.(it`s valid? Even if it is the true) <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/question.gif" alt="" />

you guys are goofy you know that <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />







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I see a future of self centeredness leading to and early divorce here.
I see a person who cares about no one else but themselves here.
I see a person here who has no clue as to what true love is.

Lastly I see an individual who has taken something beautiful here and defiled it with their own personal ugliness.

I'm sorry Lady_Rain that Virgo_Bluefire has defiled such a beautiful thread.


Fafnir

Virgo is just joking !
Look at the smilies.

Barta

To Barta:

I understand Barta, but to me True Love is as Sacred as the most Holy thing one holds dearest to their heart.
Maybe if less people would make light of it, more people would come to realize what True Love really is.


Fafnir

You have to know what you wish for to get what you whant... Mikael Wiehe.

I miss you
But I haven't met you yet
So special
But it hasn't happened yet
You are gorgeous
But I haven't met you yet
I remember
But it hasn't happened yet

And if you believe in dreams
Or what is more important
That a dream can come true
I will meet you

I was peaking
But it hasn't happened yet
I haven't been giving
My best souvenir
I miss you
But I haven't met you yet
I know your habits
But wouldn't recognize you yet

And if you believe in dreams
Or what is more important
That a dream can come true
I miss you

I get so impatient
I can't stand the wait
When will I get my cuddle
Who are you?
I know by now that you'll arrive
By the time I stop waiting

I miss you

Übereil

PS I have no idea what I whant in life. Exept happiness. But since I don't know what happiness is, I don't know what to look for, so searching is pretty useless... DS

Sadly, true love is an endangered species.... people CAN make fun of it, in the same light that we can make fun of a dinosaur... we have never known, seen, or experience the true magnificence of it...

I did not take offence... i KNOW i am not normal... i dont want to be.... you see....

"I dont suffer from insanity....... <span class='standouttext'>Spoiler : </span><span class='spoiler'> I Enjoy every single MOMENT of it!!!!!!</span>

But in my search to understand what i am to do with the love i have, i need to know what other people need.. this is what this thread is about... knowing what i am supposed to do...

When i do things to spoil you, i want to watch the surprise in your expression, hear the thanks in your voice, feel the appreciation in your touch.

Love= chemistry.

When you see someone you love, a substance (don't know the name, but it's simillar to amphetamine) is released in your brain. That is what you feel. BUT! This substance will only be effective for 1,5 to four years! So, you can only be in love (in Sweden we have two words, where one is love and the other is being in love) with a person for four years (max). BUT AGAIN! Another substance will in time start to be released (this one is similar to morfin), so in time you can start to love the person. But you're not in love with him any longer. If you whant that you'l have to find a new partner.

So really, all you loving persons, you're all a bunch of JUNKIES!!! ( <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/silly.gif" alt="" />)

But on the other hand, who cares anywhay?

Jag såg dig komma på en strand, (I saw you comeing over a beach)
jag såg dig sträcka ut din hand. (I saw you reach out your hand)
Du tog mig i din famn (you took me in your arms)
och plågorna försvann. (and the pain disappearred)
Vad bryr jag mig om varför det är så (what do I care about why it's like that?)

Übereil

One aspect of true love is two people coming together as one.
Not one of the two working at the relationship whereas the other doesn’t.
It takes a cohesive effort from both sides.

True Love is not like a Fairy Tale book.
It takes a lot of hard work from both sides.
Look to your lover’s strengths and not their short comings.
That is unless they are abusive or something.
Then you need to get out quick.
That goes for mental abuse as well.

Accept your lover for who they are and accept the fact that you are not going to change them.
If they change it will be of their own accord not that of the lover.

Sometimes one walks into a relationship not seeing the whole of the individual they met.
Ask yourself after seeing the whole, can I live with this for the rest of my life; because, you will be. Both sides always bring in their own baggage (problems).
If you cannot then run and I mean run.
There will be great hurt because of the loss, but better to hurt for a few months, than hurt for the rest of your life staying with someone you slowly grow to despise.

True Love is not ooey-gooey romance each and every day of ones life together.
Is sharing finances ooey-gooey?
Is doing the laundry ooey-gooey?
No, they are not, but they are things two people share and they are a part of the whole.

True Love is doing things with your lover even though those things might be the most boring thing in the world to you and you do them without complaint.
Remember, you both have different likes and dislikes.

These are, but a fraction of things.

I realize this isn’t exactly how you want these words expressed, but I lack the talent of word placement which adds beauty to things said.


Fafnir <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Everything posted above is all part of True Love too, but those things should come out of want and desire for one another.
They shouldn’t need to be forced.
If we had these things all of the time constantly then we wouldn’t appreciate them as much as we do.
Like those of us who can see.
How often do we really appreciate our eyes?
That’s why True Love is so special to us.

I humbly admit I don’t have all of the answers and I am not Mr. Perfect,
I am only sharing what I have learned in 15 years of marriage.
And I am still married today to my beloved,
whom I love with all of my heart.


Fafnir <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />