In the Time i have been playing ive had the game crash numerous times while quick/autosaving wich keeps trowing me back
(most likely a design choice to prevent savescumming)
Are you on a 32-bit OS? If so, known problem currently, I think you're supposed to lower your graphics settings to avoid it.
The entire city tried to kill me for closing a door in an inn
(maybe the door was underage and my actions are considered inapropriate, have to investigate further)
If the hand icon to close the door is red, then closing it is considered stealing/trespassing/whatever, and will be perceived as a hostile action by anyone who may notice you doing it.
Can't help you with the rest, never ran into any of those problems.