I'm 52. I still haven't warmed to controllers after 40-odd years! Which is odd because my typing is still lousy too.
I got my first controller last year, and I absolutely love it, but for certain games only. I can't imagine playing something like BG3 with a controller.
DOS2 from day one was amazing on Xbox controller, turn based truly does shine with it: even RTwP (like Baldur's Gate EE and Pillars 1+2) works amazing on controller which, to be honest, I thought would be impossible.....weird as!
I was super, super sceptical of controller with CRPGs, but not now, way good from the couch just relaxing and aligning team shots