Hard agree here, I hate missing things so when I know I missed something I feel so pressured into savescumming. I'd like an option to turn off showing failed passive checks at least
Youtube and mods for you then. Both vanilla D&D and gaming overall specifically have hidden tasks like that.
Plus DOS 1,2 had pretty much passive checks only on secrets. So Larian actualy had it right before. Weird why they ignore default D&D rules in BG3 for that.