Thanks. I managed to figure it out. Part of the confusion is that you are told at every gate out of town that you are not high enough level so I had no particular reason to prioritize one gate over another. Going from the location of the "Evelyn's lair" waypoint at the top of the map, the North gate seems to be the correct gate to leave out of if that is where you are trying to go. Since everything up there was too much for me I slowly swung around Cyseal going westward until I came upon an area with Level 3 & 4 enemies but I had to fight my way through much higher stuff to get there.
This is largely a nitpick but it seems dumb for the guards at the west gate which is the level appropriate area for people just starting out to still tell you that you are outclassed by enemies out that gate when in fact you are not.
Last edited by Ontarah; 29/12/20 07:15 PM.