You've got a chance, Nero - just develop the Peter Pan Syndrome (expression by Dan Kiley), no need to clutter the floor and trip over legos. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/evilgrin1.gif" alt="" />

The modern psychological Peter Pans are males not wanting to grow up, like to play around and have fun - shun from responsibility, duties, self-discipline and reliability. This is perilous for emotional relationships - where the female part has to take over responsibility for 2. You can have a lot of fun with Peter Pans, but never rely on them or believe, they will help you if you're in a bad spot and helping includes a lot of discipline.

The female counterpart in this destructive symbiosis is the "Wendy Dilemma" (Dan Kiley again) => over-responsible females, defining themselves over duty, discipline and helper-syndrome.

Kiya <looking into the mirror and deciding to smash it> [Linked Image]

BTW: Leaving popular psychology and taking this a bit more scientifical => Puer aeterna (the everlasting boy) means the same and comes from depth psychology (C.G. Jung) - it's a narcisstic disorder

Last edited by kiya; 12/01/04 03:22 PM.