After i read all the post from a outstanding position i think i have to say something.

Thank you Kiya and Galadriel for this outcoming. This is what i mean with my post in the Forum News thread.
Lynn, i think it is not necessary to close a thread like this. We can say, thats life. And things like this will happen again and then? Close the next thread like this one? Maybe the Members will think it is better if they do not throw the facts on the table becouse is it like a punishment if a thread is closed. Sure, you dont mean it in a way like this <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> But like you said, you cannot solve the problems of the people here. So, i think, it is a good start to let the Member try to solve the problems in a active and open way like the Posts from Kiya and Galadirel.
Why from a outstanding Position.
I dont have many good friends in the english part of the forum, and nobody have try to start gossip with me. So i was really surprised if i hear the problems. Like Lynx said, in the german part we dont have these problems. And in the german Part i have some good friends so i think that i will know it if there is such things start. But i can say, i want to know who and what is (if <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> ) gossiping about me. I think it is a false care not to say these things, i want to know who i can thrust and who not.
Sure, maybe its someone who i like, and maybe its hurts. But what is better, to think i have a friend, or to know i have a friend?
I can only say again. If, and i dont care who, someone try to start gossip with me over other Member i will do it like Kiya and bring it on the table. This is, even if its hurts, the best thing a friend can do.

So, after all, i think this Thread has turnd in a good way i never had expected. And this is the only reason for me to post here.

Das Ganze ist mehr als die Summe seiner Teile(Aristoteles)
Aber wenn man das einzelne nicht mehr beachtet, hat das ganze keinen Sinn mehr (Stone)