I read this Thread since him existed and have to say following in addition, if I do the nearer acquaintance with somebody in this forum, find out the only people which I really trust. If this friendship should go for which reasons also always *I asks there always after *, catches fire go, then I resign myself to it. This is like in the real life, one meets and separates.
There are with us Germans a saying: "Talking badly from you, if it is permitted to him, however, you, you lives in such a way that nobody believes it him."
I hope, it is effective into English as well.
Here in the anonymity it is simple to influence somebody.

Genieße Dein Leben ständig, denn Du bist länger tot als lebendig.