1 other point I have: pmming and chatting is completely PRIVATE. I would be really upset if someone would start to post their conversations with me on the net. Or our pms.
It's a circle of trust which you break when you do that.

that's not true, it's also about sharing necessary info with others so that everybody knows what he's like. it wasn't a private conversation imho, it was an outing of what kind of person he is and that shouldn't have been kept private.

sharing conversation about truly private things is another thing, but this is harmless and informative