My bf and I quit the last PnP D&D group we were in (2nd edition) because the players (friends of friends) were just pure crap. The DM was alright, but the players didn't even care that one of the party members were going to die. Anyway, we quit that after playing for a few months.
The current one we're playing is 3rd edition in OpenRPG. It's actually pretty fun, considering that we're playing with total strangers. We've been playing for a few weeks. It sucks whenever the group dynamic is <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/alien.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/suspicion.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/memad.gif" alt="" /> ... but with strangers you don't really have that problem, since everyone is more polite to each other.