in the end i reloaded and went with siding with lohse and then still atacking her to knock her out of it

since i did not recruit sebille at that point the entive cave hates me+lohse/ifan but sebille is still at 0 which is quite a nice way to still get the skillbooks from the lizard for a reasonable price

but i still hope that they maybe change the way lohses attitude drops when u go against her when the game fully releases